Recently, i've been getting the feeling that i'm surrounded by freaky men. One breed, which is especially prominent is a group of men i like to call, THE EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN (E.U.M).

They are literally EVERYWHERE. Take a stone and throw on the streets and you'll definately hit a emotionally unavailable men.

*tIng nods her head.*

Yupz.. thats how over populated they are! I think i had my fair share of E.U.Ms. Its seems to me that almost all the guys i met are emotionally unavailable for some reasons. The most common of all is that they cant get over their ex-gfs. Well, let me decipher this for you ladies out there. It simply means "I like you but i still wan to fuck other gals too." *shrugs*

This breed of men enjoy your company, whether it is dinner, movies or even just tea. They may not be looking for sex but they do want to hold you, kiss you and sometimes snog. They can be amazingly romantic and sweet. They give gals all these mixed feelings. Of course, me being me, always end up so confused and fustrated that i literally want to strangle all of them!! But then i realised that no matter how i feel or what i do, at the end of the day, they still remain emotioanally distant from ME.

After time and time of getting upset anf fustrated over this type of men, i finally realised.


This means being emotionally distant from THEM! You can go out on dates, enjoy their company and at the end enjoy a little snog. *winkz* But the moment the word "Goodbye" leaves your lips, you stop feeling for them. Like what i always say, I only love them when i see them.


Of course i'm not saying that this form of relationship is healthy. But it does save me from alot of heartache. *shurgs*


loVe iS a deLuSiOn tHat OnE mAn dIffErs fRoM aNotHer.