Was watching this episode of “Sex and the City” about the ex boyfriends. I don’t deal very well with ex bfs. You see, I don’t particularly fancy hearing anything about their present girlfriends. Especially NOT when they are having a wonderful time together! I don’t want to hear about it and have to go through the “Why isn’t it me?” phrase again.. Its not like I haven’t tried being friends with my ex. It just didn’t work out. *shrugs* I prefer not to know anything. Even if I met them on the streets some day, I’ll rather pretend that I don’t know them at all.

*tIng looks around the room.*

I’ve always wondered how some couples could be very good friends even after their breakups? It seems like such a good and polite thing to do. But I’m not sure the thing about being happy for your ex bfs is suitable for me. Most of the time I wished they are either eaten by monsters or kidnap to another planet by aliens. *shrugs* Well, what can I say? I just don’t want them around me. Sure, they can be happy by all means. Just don’t let me know ok? I hate you and your gf. Period.

I think if I’m someone’s gf, I would appreciate it very much indeed if his ex gf steer clear. I mean its already so hard to try to hold on to a relationship, without having external forces.aka.ex gfs interfering. Gosh.. And not forgetting the danger of going into the murky grey area! *tsk tsk* That’s why I never never talk to my ex bfs anymore. I think its for the good of all of us.

I don’t know if the part about guys choosing “simple girls” over “complicated girls” is true? Does it mean I’m too complicated for a man to understand and that’s why I’m not in a relationship? Or am I just a “wild girl”, waiting for the right guy to tame me down and take me for the ride of my life?! (Yesssh.. pun intended!) *winkz* I think all of my ex bfs found me too complicated to handle. *shrugs* But I’m not going to get all defensive and say things like I don’t agree with them. I guess I wanted things that were very different from what they want. Case closed.

*tIng puts all the ex bfs files into the cupboard and locks them up.*

loVe iS a deLuSiOn tHat OnE mAn dIffErs fRoM aNotHer.